This is the ultimate conundrum for witnesses. They say Jesus' words are for those ressurected but what about all those that gave up their prospects for marriage to served Jah ( jeptha's daughter, The virgin that use to keep david warm when he got old and others.) Now in theory they gave up the pleasures of the flesh to better serve Jah and looked forward to him blessing them in the future paradise. Imagine being one of these and finding out in the paradise you were so looking forqward to you cant finally have the family that you yearned for.
As far as the annointed. I remember when I was at Bethel at one time they talked about the chance that in the new system the annointed could possibly interact with their brethen here on Earth. The theory was presented that maybe certain annointed would act as emmisaries betweeen christ and the R&F (sounded like saints to me.) They backed off this quickly.
And lastly, as far as the ressurected being like Angels. Didn't the Angels look down on the daughters of men and start to get horny, made bodies for themselves and start spitting game to the women's of that era?